Below are books, online communities, and other things that I recommend to you. Updated at random.
The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey
America's Cheapest Family Gets You Right on the Money by Steve and Annette Economides
Your Money or Your Life by Vicki Robin
All Your Worth by Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Warren Tyagi
The Complete Tightwad Gazette by Amy Dacyczyn
The Good Life for Less by Amy Allen Clark